I agree with you, Melissa. Churches tend to cookie-cutter people into 'nice' groups. Some of us just don't fit. Singles near to my heart have been pointing this out for a long time. They may not want to be married, or aren't sure, and feel pressured to find a 'soul mate'. What about God's will for them? They may serve best single and are pleased to serve the Lord that way. Thank you for your article.